I just finished watching a very unusual conversation hosted by Therapy First that included a civil disagreement about the implications of overlap between gender non conformity in childhood and later development of same sex orientation vs. trans identity as represented by adults on the panel who were either happily transitioned as adults or happily gender ambiguous and same sex attracted, and regardless of differences of opinion about whether that overlap is 100%, everyone agreed that youth should be exposed to more info about LGB and not just trans so I just want to say to those who don’t support you writing this book because it contradicts their own experiences and narratives: ALL lived experiences growing up with with gender non conformity matter, it doesn’t have to be the same as some one else’s that’s what individualized care that respects ideological diversity is all about and I’m sure you will offer hope for the future for some young person trying to figure out what’s best for them in the long run which hopefully makes it worthwhile to endure the public exposure
I hope that it will end up alongside others on library bookshelves for all the young people who might find it helpful to know that a medical pathway based on a born in the wrong body concept isn’t necessarily the only pathway to ultimate self acceptance and happiness for all, as well as for adults who are in a position to offer guidance, especially parents, teachers and therapists
I preordered and can’t wait to read it, congratulations!
Yes, this is a very vulnerable time for you. Yikes! It will be interesting to see if there are any trends regarding feedback. Maybe it will surprise you and maybe the TQIA++ won't come after you any more than they have;-) That was smart to have Julie Bindel and KK give you their thoughts. I'll be interested to hear how the choice of book cover photo came about--that and the awesome title will be very attention grabbing. Will you like 'tour' to sell it? Maybe I'll see you at Genspect;-)
My local indie store can’t pre order until mid summer but I have it bookmarked. I try to order through the indie because maybe they order a copy for the store while they are at it, and someone may see it and be inspired.
You're a brave person, but I can't imagine how it must feel putting it all out there in this environment. I hope a book tour brings you to Texas. I clicked the link but don't see an electronic version of the book to preorder and I prefer to read that way. Please let me know when that is available.
If Bindel likes it I’m pretty sure I’ll love it. She’s… sparing… with praise and compliments as far as I can tell, so it’s wonderful when she likes something!
If you are ok with Pornhub being in Young people’s lives, or scoff at its emotional impact, you’re very much part of the “trans” problem. Yes. Direct connection. No “ porn”, no trans.
Looking forward to reading your book. I will preorder--and request my local library order your book.
Library agreed to order the PITT book, as well as Kara Dansky's book.
I just finished watching a very unusual conversation hosted by Therapy First that included a civil disagreement about the implications of overlap between gender non conformity in childhood and later development of same sex orientation vs. trans identity as represented by adults on the panel who were either happily transitioned as adults or happily gender ambiguous and same sex attracted, and regardless of differences of opinion about whether that overlap is 100%, everyone agreed that youth should be exposed to more info about LGB and not just trans so I just want to say to those who don’t support you writing this book because it contradicts their own experiences and narratives: ALL lived experiences growing up with with gender non conformity matter, it doesn’t have to be the same as some one else’s that’s what individualized care that respects ideological diversity is all about and I’m sure you will offer hope for the future for some young person trying to figure out what’s best for them in the long run which hopefully makes it worthwhile to endure the public exposure
I hope that it will end up alongside others on library bookshelves for all the young people who might find it helpful to know that a medical pathway based on a born in the wrong body concept isn’t necessarily the only pathway to ultimate self acceptance and happiness for all, as well as for adults who are in a position to offer guidance, especially parents, teachers and therapists
I preordered and can’t wait to read it, congratulations!
Being hated by lots of people is also incredibly liberating, if it's any consolation. Looking forward to this.
Just pre-ordered. So if you are a bad person, so am I. The water's fine!
I'll support you and order the book. And yes, it is vulnerable to put yourself out there. And it is liberating too.
Yes, this is a very vulnerable time for you. Yikes! It will be interesting to see if there are any trends regarding feedback. Maybe it will surprise you and maybe the TQIA++ won't come after you any more than they have;-) That was smart to have Julie Bindel and KK give you their thoughts. I'll be interested to hear how the choice of book cover photo came about--that and the awesome title will be very attention grabbing. Will you like 'tour' to sell it? Maybe I'll see you at Genspect;-)
Well done, Ben. I know the feeling!
Looking forward to your book!
Very much looking forward to reading your book. I hope you will be doing the audiobook version as well.
Pre-ordering, Ben! So proud of you and can’t wait to read the book and see you again.
Hanni (Hazel) and Helen in Massachusetts
My local indie store can’t pre order until mid summer but I have it bookmarked. I try to order through the indie because maybe they order a copy for the store while they are at it, and someone may see it and be inspired.
You're a brave person, but I can't imagine how it must feel putting it all out there in this environment. I hope a book tour brings you to Texas. I clicked the link but don't see an electronic version of the book to preorder and I prefer to read that way. Please let me know when that is available.
If Bindel likes it I’m pretty sure I’ll love it. She’s… sparing… with praise and compliments as far as I can tell, so it’s wonderful when she likes something!
Make sure to send me a review copy!
Will you publish in ebook too?
If you are ok with Pornhub being in Young people’s lives, or scoff at its emotional impact, you’re very much part of the “trans” problem. Yes. Direct connection. No “ porn”, no trans.